How To Forget Someone With Whom You Are Madly In Love With !!

           We all get Attracted by Someone Special .We start liking them and fall madly in love with .We feel this person is our best match .Our soulmate ! But your Special one does not want to be with you . Or may be you guys have had a breakup.

We get hurt,Heartbroken, Devastated .We cry over them .All we keep thinking is how good it would be if we were together .We start living in our own world.

Well such situations do come in everyone's life . We have all faced this .Isnt it?

How many days you can keep crying over the one u love? Do they care about us the same way?Why should you hurt yourself?

THIS IS ABSOLUTELY WRONG !!

Itz time to move on .
Itz time to get over !!

            If you want to get over the one who rejected you the first thing you have to do is to face the reality.Itz time to finally accept the fact that the one you liked all these days does not want to be with you/like you/love you. May be he /she  just does not deserve you.If you were meant to be together then you would have been together by now and would not have been reading this article at the first place !!

           You have to accept the fact that you both arent meant to be together .In order to heal your heart you have to forget them even though it is painful and  hurts a lot .Living in denial can be more harmful.But itz quite common that every time you try to forget them , their memories take you back to your imaginary world.

Here are some quick points if you want to get over the one you like

1. Cut off physical contact. You cannot forget someone if you still see him or her all the         time, or constantly hear about his or her activities.

2. Remove him or her from your electronic life. In today’s age, the people we associate       with are more often than not through a screen. Even if you don’t see the person, it’s far         too easy to see what they’re up to. Though it may seem harsh, remove him or her from all     the forms of social media that you use.

• Delete his or her contact information from your phone and email account
• Block his or her Facebook profile, Twitter, Instagram, etc.

3. Get rid of what reminds you of this person. Purge your life of anything that brings up       memories of this person. Not looking at these things every day will help you move on.

4. Don't let the desire for revenge consume you. Recognize that wanting to take revenge     on someone (by making him or her jealous, upset, or sorry) still qualifies as thinking about     them. You can't move on and forget if you're obsessed with vengeance, so learn how to       let it go.

5. Don’t listen to emotional music or movies. Trying to forget a person is a set up for           mood swings and depression. Right now you may feel like you’re in a very vulnerable           place. The last thing you need is outside stimuli that cultivates this emotion, so keep the       music you listen to upbeat and only watch feel-good TV or movies.

6. Pursue your passions. Keep yourself on the right track by replacing the time you would       have spent with this person (or would have spent thinking about him or her) with a new         activity. Take up a hobby you have always wanted to try, join an intramural sports league,     or start a new form of exercise. Whatever it is, it should be so interesting and engrossing       that you can't manage to think of anything else while you're doing it.

7. Surround yourself with friends and family. The best way to keep your mind busy, your     schedule busy, and yourself positive, is to surround yourself with fantastic people that           genuinely care about you. Whether that means your mom, your sister, your best friend, a     theatre group, or your basketball team, stick with them. They’ll keep you laughing and           help you see that you have a million things going for you.

8. Forgive and forget. In the end, forgetting someone is virtually impossible to do if you       can’t forgive them. If you’re following all the above steps and still can’t manage to               forget, work on forgiving instead. They’re just a human and things happen. Life goes         on.

• Don’t forget to forgive yourself. For many of us, we hold grudges against ourselves more easily than we hold grudges against others. Remember that at the time, you did what you thought was right. They did, too. No one is to blame or is at fault. The past is in the past and it’s going to stay there. And that is for the best – this way, you’re free to move on.

           Doing all these thing looks so tough right now. But trust me you got to start it. It might be tough to begin with but once you get over , you will be proud that you did it. It is like winning over your mind and datz the ultimate happiness. :)

Hope this post helps you guys .All the best ! Many more to come .Do follow me and comment your experiences in life in the comment box below .Who knows your experience might help someone get over their crush !! :)